Quiz: Are you about to get dumped?
By Margot Carmichael Lester Something's changed. You can't put your finger on it, but your mate's been acting differently or seems very distracted. Is Mercury in retrograde or are you in danger of losing your relationship? Take this fun quiz to find out if you're about to get dumped.1. You want to discuss the future of your relationship. Your beloved:
• Laughs maniacally (Score = 1)
• Keeps putting it off (Score = 2)
• Reluctantly agrees (Score =3)
• Is eager to learn your feelings and concerns (Score = 4)
• Runs screaming from the room (Score = -1)
2. You agree it's time for a weekend getaway. Your partner:
• Arranges a great excursion — for one (Score = 1)
• Applauds your decision to do some solo travel (Score = 2)
• Wants to think it over (Score = 3)
• Suggests a romantic mini-vacation (Score =4)
• Plans a trip for two — and doesn't invite you (Score = -1)
3. Your once-affectionate sweetie is now:
• Undoubtedly flirting with someone else (Score = 1)
• More erratic than erotic (Score = 2)
• Slightly less ardent, but still interested (Score = 3)
• Just as turned on and ready as ever (Score = 4)
• Missing in action (Score = -1)
4. How often do you argue?
• Every few days (Score = 1)
• A couple times a month (Score = 2)
• Depends on the definition of "argue" (Score = 3)
• Rarely (Score = 4)
• It's a way of life (Score = -1)
5. How does your partner introduce you:
• Just my name (Score = 1)
• As a friend (Score = 2)
• As a close or good friend (Score = 3)
• As the love of his/her life (Score = 4)
• I have to introduce myself (Score = -1)
Less than 0: You're DOA. This relationship has been over, even if your partner hasn't pulled the plug. Get out now while you can still salvage a modicum of self-esteem.
0-5: The fat lady is singing because the curtain is about to fall. Cut your losses and start searching for someone new!
6-10: It's touch and go. Indifference is almost as bad as uninterested. Talk to your partner about your feelings and determine where you both are. Having this conversation will help you both decide if your relationship can — and should — be saved.
11-15: Search and rescue. Your relationship has a pretty good foundation, but there are some cracks and fissures. Take time to discuss the state of your union and find some ways to get back more of the good.
16-20: Safe and sound. Congratulations — your love is solid as a rock.